Oral? guys like it but then say only sluts do it? so i usually give oral. i like giving it and find it arousing. i dont go giving head to strangers though. just that my friends say only sluts do it and a guy dumped me saying it was too good and that i probably got so much experience from giving all the guys i know oral. should i stop ??? |
First of all this thing about only "sluts" giving it is TOTAL RUBBISH - millions upon millions of people give oral and it simply a way of giving your partner another, more intense and personal form of pleasure.
Your friends are talking total rubbish - and as for the guy who dumped you - he seems kind of queer - who dumps a girl for being too good at head? that makes no sense at all. |
If you loved you're girlfriend, would you let her perform oral sex on you? I was talking to one of my friends and out of nowhere we ended up talking about oral sex. He told me that he doesn't let his girlfriend do that because that's disrespect and that's what sluts do. |
Everyone has views on what is slutty and what is not slutty. Everyone has their own opinions. But going by his thoughts, that would make about 95% of the whole female population of the world a slut.
Can't change his mind about that, but I think he should really understand what a slut is, before basing one sexual act as being slutty or not.
I am also guessing this question is for guys, but I had 2 answer, and YES I would, and not think she is a slut |
How long in a relationship to wait for oral..? I have been dating my boyfriend for a little less than 2 months, and I am ready for him to eat me out and I give him head, is it too early? I really want to but I'm afraid he'll think I'm a slut by moving so fast. What do you guys think? And how should I ask him to do it? |
| If you feel like you are ready, unless he is religious or something we will probably love it. 2 months is ok in my opinion. Its not really about how long you have been together its your feelings for each other that matter. |
My boyfriend and I just tried oral for the first time. I accidentally swallowed some. What are your opinions? Am i slut? Do i need a pregnancy test? Is he gonna break up with me? Is this nasty? |
| Yes, you are. No, you idiot. Probably will. Yes, it's disgusting. |
What makes a girl look like she'd be good at oral? Asking because a man said this to me, and it's got me slightly paranoid as I don't think I'm overt in my sexuality. I'm certain he thought it was a compliment and didn't think anything of it. So...did he just call me a slut? |
| i think her mouth & lips and how sweet she talks :) |
Will giving my boyfriend oral label me as a slut? Ok we've been together for 2 years and I'm pregnant with his little baby :))) lately idk I've just been curious to try new things. So we were talking about doing some new things in the bedroom and he brought up oral. He said that he would agree to try it on me if I tried it with him. He's the first guy I've ever been with and I really do love him so it's not like I'm giving a random guy a *******. I just want to know like would the average person consider me a slut if I gave him oral sex? |
| No. What you do in a committed relationship is fine, whether it's kissing, oral, or being his sex slave. |
Oral and losing virginity? I want to know i f you think a girl is still a virgin if she participates in oral sex.
While it is sex, I don't think it counts. First off, she isn't being pleasured, and she won't reach orgasm over giving head. To me, this is just an act that is selfless, if not a little dirty. Anal and Vaginal on the other hand, count as losing virginity IMO.
"Technical virgins" are cheap sluts.
What do you think? |
| it' s my think....it' s morally lose of virginity any way |
What percentage of female meth addicts do you think sleep with some if not all their dealers? I'm only 21,and have already seen and heard of girls saying "you wont believe the things ive done for what i needed" and you can tell they are complete tweakers..
some tweaker girls Ive met and know are huge sluts.
Do you think a majority of them have sex/oral with their dealers to get their fix or good deals?
Thanks |
| It increases sex drive and urgency so it is no surprise really, (...also stops you achieving orgasm). |
Why Do Girls, Who Aren't Sluts, Like To Be Called Sluts When Having Sex? ive had sex with sluts and non sluts and ive noticed that the non sluts like to be called sluts when having sex and make jokes about how they are slut when im talking to them (when really theyre not slutty in the slightest, they dont do oral or are into experimenting at all). and while the sluts like to be called that too during sex they dont like me bringing it up in casual conversation. anyway why do non sluts like to be called sluts when they have sex |
The motivation behind what many girls do or in your question "say" is simply what they believe the man wants. She's under the impression that something turns men on and she's willing to accommodate that. That is the nature of many woman i.e. very accommodating in trying to please a man. Enjoy!!
Ciao! |